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April 22, 2015

Life lessons learned at work

April 22, 2015

Work.  It’s my least favorite four-letter word.  I’m lucky in that my work environment is pretty laid back and I don’t have many complaints, unlike some places I’ve worked before.

Even though people mostly learn from the negatives, I like to think we can learn from all experiences both good and bad.  Here are a handful of things I learned (or am still learning) about the working world.

Work is my least favorite four-letter word! There are good things you can learn about life at work. Stay motivated, stay strong.

 If you’re not okay with something, speak up

This is something I’m working on actively.  There have been so many instances in the past where I didn’t speak up when something wasn’t right and it bit me in the ass.

Just right now, I’m trying my best to let my manager know when I feel overwhelmed with my work instead of just silently martyring myself and letting my anger and frustration fester.

You’re not there to make friends

I know, this sounds harsh, but really, you aren’t getting paid to goof off, you’re paid to work.  I’m not saying don’t form relationships with your co-workers.  I’m saying the primary goal isn’t to make friends with everyone you encounter.

I cannot tell you how much it annoys me when I’m silently martyring myself in my cube and I hear people just BSing.  So please, don’t be that person.

You totally need a work BFF, though, and if you happen to become good friends with your coworkers, that’s fantastic.  Just don’t treat it like a social club, mmkay?

Recognize your accomplishments

I’m so awful at speaking up (as I mentioned before).  So I have a Warm n Fuzzies folder where I’ll sort out emails of praise and good work.  It really helps to recognize my accomplishments when they’re sitting right there in front of me.

For example: I wrote a blog post for my company’s “Company Culture” series.  It was nice to have someone else recognize me as the writer I know I am.  It helped me to be like, “Yeah, I am a good writer.  Other people can see it, too!”

Here’s a great article about recognizing your accomplishments at work.  Thanks, Levo!

It’s okay to leave

I’m not afraid to admit that I was fired.  Yep, I got the boot.  Canned.  Sacked.  Let go.  Etc.

And that’s okay.  Sometimes if you can’t say no yourself, someone else has to do it for you.  It was one of the best things that happened.

Leaving, either willingly or unwillingly, allows you to make changes that you need.  Just like Rachel from Clarity On Fire says, though, recognize where the problem is.  Are you leaving and not fixing problems that are fundamentally wrong?  Maybe there’s a glaring trend that you just aren’t seeing.

What have you learned from your experiences at work?

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9 Comments · Labels: Just a Thought Tagged: career, clarity on fire, lessons, Levo League, work

  • Claire @ fashion + feathers

    Those are great lessons to learn. I agree with so many of them and recognizing our own accomplishments is hard sometimes. Something I can work on, especially when I feel overwhelmed.

    • Angelica @GardeningInHighHeels

      Thank you, Claire! The article from Levo that I linked to in that section has some really good tips about recognizing your own accomplishments (and then sharing them, which is something I struggle with, too!)

  • Jaelan @ Making Mrs. M

    These are great things to learn! It takes some people YEARS to learn these.

    • Angelica @GardeningInHighHeels

      Thank you! I’m sure there are more and I’ll keep learning them as I go. What’s one thing you learned at work?

      • Jaelan @ Making Mrs. M

        I learned that loyalty goes a long way!

  • Laura Welch

    great lessons! I did a similar post haha! I still struggle with a lot of these, I need to keep them in mind!

    • Angelica @GardeningInHighHeels

      Thank you! I had this written in my “idea book” that I keep with me when I’m reading, so I probably stole this idea from you and didn’t realize it because I wrote it down so long ago haha. <3 Will totally credit!

  • Katy McKinley

    I’ve worked in some of the best work environments and the worst. Being able to identify if you need to stay or leave is a super important part…to both your mental health and the place of business. Because if you’re not happy, it’s most likely showing.

    • Angelica @GardeningInHighHeels

      It really is a heartbreaking yet crucial decision to make. I’m glad you’re doing something that makes you happy now!

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