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June 12, 2015

Five Things I Wish I Knew When I Started Blogging

June 12, 2015

When I started blogging, I pretty much did it sporadically and very not-seriously.  Aside from a handful of accounts, I didn’t realize that you could really be a “blogger” and not “someone who has a blog.”  There’s a difference, people!  I was so not aware that there was the community out there.  If I had known these things from the get-go, I might be in a different place.

5 things I wish I knew when I started blogging. Don't make these mistakes!

It is an investment

Time, money, energy…blogging is an investment.  The more serious you want to be, the more of an investment it is.  Blogging can truly be a full time job, but you also have to dedicate full time energy to it.

Pick where you want to invest and do so wisely.  If you don’t want to commit to blogging every day (like us over in the Be A Better Blogger Challenge!) pick a schedule so your readers know when to expect to see your new posts.  They’re excited to hear from you!

Also choose where you want to spend your money.  Sure you don’t need a premium theme right out of the gates, but you probably will want that in the future.  Pick something that can grow with you.  Same with your domain name and your hosting.  Make sure that you have invested in a solid foundation.

It’s okay to stumble and then come back

I’ve “rebranded” myself so many times.  I stopped writing for large chunks of time.  I didn’t have a Facebook page for my blog for a long time.  It’s okay.  You’re learning and growing.  It’s perfectly fine to stumble and come back stronger.

Be authentic

There are days when I feel like I’m still trying to find my true voice here and other days that I say, “Boom, this is me, this is what I sound like, deal with it.”  In my head, I’d like to think I’m a lot more unapologetic than I actually am.  This is why I love Laura and Katy so much.  They are 100% them and it totally come through in their blogs.

But no matter what, be true to you and who you are.  There are posts of mine that I read and I’m just like….that feels awkward to me.  Your readers probably feel a little of that, too.

Find your support group

Get a group of friends together, find communities online, and get interacting!  It’s so helpful to have people to bounce ideas off of and turn to when you’re struggling.  They’ll help you sort through where you want to be, where you are right now, and connect the two.

The SITS Girls is a great community, so is BlogHer, and of course, you can check out what Marissa has to say about finding your tribe so you can make your own group.

Decide what kind of blogger do you want to be

Part of this is why it’s handy to have a tribe.  Maybe you don’t know what kind of blogger you want to be.  Maybe you’re a Seinfeld blog like Katy, maybe you have a clear focus like Kristin.

I wish I would have known what I wanted to do when I started blogging.  I kind of just opened up a blog because I thought it would be fun and filled in the blanks from there.  I mean, there’s nothing wrong with that, but it’s nice to have more of a direction.

What do you wish you knew when you started blogging?

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6 Comments · Labels: Digital Creatives, Five Things Tagged: be a better blogger, blogging, five things, tips

  • Amanda Brooks

    These are great points! I felt like I was pretty prepared when I finally started my blog at the end of last year, but it turned out that I really wasn’t. You don’t realize how much work it is until you start. And then you see that one short blog post can take 2 hours to write! One of the big things I wish I had known was that generating a following takes a long time. Don’t expect people to flood your site the day you start. It takes a lot of time and effort 🙂

    • Angelica @GardeningInHighHeels

      I love that point – it does take a lot of time! I feel like no one is quite honest with how much of an investment it really is. I try very hard not to compare my following to where other bloggers are, but it’s so hard! Thanks for sharing 🙂

  • Marissa Burdett

    This is a great post! And so very true. It’s amazing how much we’ve learned and grown over the years. I think all of your points are great, but I love the last point about deciding what kind of blogger you want to be. This can shift over time, but having that support group to talk it over with is really key. Thanks for being part of my tribe!

    • Angelica @GardeningInHighHeels

      Thank you! At this point, I almost feel should have grown so much more. But maybe my mistakes will help someone else!

  • Katy McKinley

    Blogging is such a funny animal! Point #1 is dead on. So. Much. Invested. Mostly time, a little money and an obscene amount of energy. Wouldn’t do it if I didn’t love it though!

    • Angelica @GardeningInHighHeels

      So true! The things we do for the activities/people we love.. And you’re dead right: the energy invested is obscene.

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